What
does society consider makes a good person? We live in a world with a
very vague definition of what makes a good person. Some say that if
you are skilled at lying, stealing, treat others unjustly, lustful
thoughts, or hatred towards others that you can appear as a good
person. If others believe you are a good person that you must
be...There are so many people in society, some positioned in power
that want us to think they are good people. Even they know they are
not good people.
In
my neighborhood, and surely in your neighborhood there is someone who
you and I likely think is a really good person. She is likely a Mom
who's kids show up to the bus stop dawning the latest in fashion,
carrying a home lunch in a crafty lunch sack. This person will spend
her days serving lunch on the soup line, or in a woman's shelter
being a friend to the battered women and children in town. In her
spare time, this neighbor can be found blogging the latest
inspirations as the sweet smell of homemade bread rises from her
oven. Sunday morning, you will find her sitting on the front row in
the chapel. Outwardly, her life seems flawless. Many of us look on
these neighbors with envy, I know I do.
What
really goes on in this neighbors life? Why does she put on this
outward bravado? Is she living her truth? If I am living my truth
would I be looking on her so envious?
I
dare say that few of us live our truth in the outward world. Most of
the time, we have struggles that we try to hide from friends, family,
and co-workers. We always put our best face forward, saying “Sure,
I would love to help...” when inside we are screaming for help
ourselves. What would happen if we say “I'm sorry, not this
time.”??? Our fear of rejection and ridicule would likely never let
us find out.
How
is living my truth outwardly possible? How do I build enough
confidence to live my truth, in spite of the outside world? Over the
course of the coming days, I'm going to discuss with you what works
for me in living my truth.
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